Complete BDSM checklist

Do you want to join the BDSM adventure? Do you want to become a slave, a master? Does your partner agree to play with you?

Lebisou supports you in writing a BDSM contract by providing you with a checklist of all sexual practices performed in BDSM environments. This checklist must be completed in addition to your contract. The watchwords: don't force yourself and go little by little! You can come back to the contract later and add authorizations for new practices.

Lebisou wishes you to have a great time with BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism)!

LISTE BDSM

 

Category Description Do you accept this action? Do you want to subject your partner to this action?
SEX Anulingus    
SEX Swallowing sperm    
SEX Cunnilingus    
SEX Anal dilation    
SEX Vaginal dilation    
SEX Double penetration    
SEX Blowjob    
SEX Fisting anal    
SEX Vaginal fisting    
SEX Masturber    
SEX Vaginal penetration    
SEX Masturbating in front of your partner    
SEX Anal sex (in general)    
SEX Sex on the phone with the partner    
SEX Phone sex with another person    
SEX Oral sex (in general)    
SEX Vaginal sex (in general)    
SEX Sodomy    
SEX Triple penetration    
SEX Sexual intercourse with a person of the same sex (homosexuality)    
SEX Sexual intercourse with a person of the opposite sex (heterosexuality)    
SOF Massage sensuel    
SOF Regarder une vidéo porno sur Internet    
SOF Acheter un magazine érotique dans une maison de la presse    
JEU Jeux de société sexy avec d'autres personnes (strip poker, ...)    
JEU Jeux de société sexy en privé    
JEU Free game scenarios on Lebisou     
JEU Free dating games on Lebisou    
TOY Geisha balls (carried at home)    
TOY Geisha balls (worn in public, under clothing)    
TOY Anal rosary    
TOY Cockring    
TOY Blowjob on dildo    
TOY Blowjob on a belt bucket    
TOY Gates of Hell    
TOY Dildo (vaginal insertion)    
TOY Anal Dildo    
TOY Vibrating egg    
TOY Penetration with a belt dildo    
TOY Anal plug (worn at home)    
TOY Anal plug (worn in public, under clothing)    
TOY Vibrator    
TOY Fucking machine    
TOY Wooden sextoy    
TOY Chinese fingers    
TOY Clitoral simulator    
LIB Candaulism    
LIB Cuckolding    
LIB Echangisme    
LIB Mixing (group sexuality close to swinging)    
LIB Female pluralism    
LIB Male pluralism    
LIB Threesome    
LIB Voyeurism (watch others)    
BON Armbinder    
BON Attached standing behind and lifted    
BON Attached Standing Arms Raised    
BON Attached on a trestle    
BON Ball gag    
BON Gag in adhesive tape    
BON Cloth gag    
BON Gag now open mouth for penetration (ring or "spider")    
BON Gag bit    
BON Headband on the eyes    
BON Lace mask on the eyes    
BON Headband on the eyes    
BON Spreader bars    
BON Bondage (public, under clothes)    
BON Bondage with ropes    
BON Bondage with chains    
BON Bondage with thongs    
BON Bondage with plastic film    
BON Bondage with tape or "bondage tape" (black or pink BDSM special tape)    
BON Heavy bondage    
BON Bondage soft    
BON Bondage over a long period    
BON Balaclava covering the whole head    
BON Straitjacket    
BON St. Andrew's Cross    
BON Sleeping tied    
BON Locking up in a closet or cell    
BON Lock in a cage    
BON Equipment of complex constraints in leather or faux leather    
BON Head harness    
BON Harness in leather or faux leather    
BON Rope harness    
BON Hands tied    
BON Leather handcuffs    
BON Metal handcuffs    
BON Praised    
BON Mummification (with plastic film, bondage tape, ...)    
BON Feet attached    
BON Shibari    
BON Sling    
BON Suspension upside down    
BON Suspension horizontally    
BON Suspension in a standing position    
DS Chastity accessories (chastity cage for men, chastity belt for women)    
DS Forced chastity    
DS Necklace + leash (worn at home)    
DS Necklace + leash (worn in the evening, in public)    
DS Competition (with other people submitted)    
DS Orgasm control    
DS Control of the use of the bathroom    
DS Control of the use of toilets    
DS Denial of orgasm    
DS Homework (exercises to do alone)    
DS To be loaned to another dominant person    
DS To be given to another dominant person    
DS Forced physical exercise    
DS Offer new partners to the dominant person    
DS Frustration    
DS Harem    
DS Heterosexuality imposed    
DS Imposed homosexuality    
DS Humiliation (in a restricted circle)    
DS Humiliation (public evening)    
DS Verbal humiliation    
DS Licking (non-sexual: object, ground, ...)    
DS Masturbation imposed    
DS Picketing (standing, in a corner)    
DS Eat food presented in the hand of the dominant person    
DS Eat food in a bowl    
DS Imposed food    
DS Obey orders    
DS Orgasm ruined    
DS Orgasm on order    
DS Wearing symbolic jewels    
DS Rules of behavior to follow    
DS Speech restriction    
DS Sleep restriction    
DS Restriction of visual contacts    
DS Sexual restriction (short term)    
DS  Sexual restriction (medium to long term)    
DS Kneel    
DS Sermon / lesson in case of misconduct    
DS Serve the dominant person    
DS Serve other people in addition to the dominant person    
DS Ashtray serving    
DS To serve as a driver    
DS Serve as decoration (statue, flower pot, ...) or furniture    
DS Serve as a servant and a waiter    
DS To serve as a toilet    
DS To serve sexually    
DS Dance on demand    
DS Housework    
SM Wooden paddle (sort of hard wooden whip - punishment instrument)    
SM Torture of the genitals    
SM Badine (long whip)    
SM Thorny branches    
SM Burns (wax of candles)    
SM Burns (iron)    
SM Cane (rigid)    
SM Cane (flexible)    
SM slapping    
SM Flexible correction    
SM Hard correction    
SM Blows on the back    
SM Blows on the back...    
SM Strokes on the chest / chest    
SM Blows on the belly    
SM Blows on buttocks    
SM Strokes on the legs    
SM Strokes on the feet    
SM cuts    
SM Whip    
SM Agreatignance    
SM Stretching or twisting of the genitals with the fingers    
SM Stretching or twisting nipples or breasts with fingers    
SM Spanking    
SM Spanking with a strap or belt    
SM Whip "Single tail"    
SM Whip with thong    
SM Riding Training Whip    
SM swift    
SM bites    
SM Clothespins on the body    
SM Clamps with breasts    
SM Clamps on sex    
SM Breast weight    
SM Torture in the water    
SEN Tickling    
SEN Hot wax    
SEN Hot wax on the genitals    
SEN Breath control    
SEN Electro-simulation    
SEN Restrictor    
SEN Fireplay    
SEN Friction    
SEN Ice    
SEN  Needle games    
SEN Knifeplay    
SEN Sensory deprivation    
SEN Suction    
SEN Teasing    
SEN Hair drawing    
VET Corsets    
VET Nudity imposed in the presence of other people    
VET Nudity imposed in private    
VET Maid outfit    
VET Dress code    
VET Travesty    
VET Forced intercity    
VET uniforms    
VET Leather clothing    
VET Latex clothing    
VET Lycra clothing    
VET Vinyl clothing    
VET Dare clothing (in private)    
VET Dare clothing (in public)    
PHY Hair shaving    
PHY Shaving body hair    
PHY Shaving of genital areas    
EXH Forced exhibitionism    
EXH Exhibitionism (in a small circle)    
EXH Exhibitionism in front of webcam    
EXH Voluntary exhibitionism    
EXH Public exhibition    
EXH Photos published in the photo gallery Lebisou    
EXH Photos for private use    
EXH  Photos exchanged by chat with other Lebisou members    
EXH Outdoor BDSM scenes    
EXH Outdoor sex    
EXH Videos posted in Lebisou photo / video Lebisou    
EXH Videos for private use    
EXH Videos exchanged by chat with other Lebisou members    
FET Boot fetishist    
FET Foot fetishist    
FET Breasts fetishist    
FET Fetishist high heels    
FET Butt fetishist    
FET Fetish sex    
FET Drink urine    
FET Brown shower (droppings)    
FET Golden shower    
FET Food placed on the body of another person    
FET Trampling    
ROL Age play / Regression games (disguising yourself as a baby, child, teenager)    
ROL interrogations    
ROL Role play: Education    
ROL Role play: medical (nurse, doctor, medical visit, ...)    
ROL Role play: prison    
ROL Role play: Prostitution    
ROL Role play: religious    
ROL Simulated kidnapping    
ROL Pet play    
ROL Pig play    
ROL Pony play    
ROL Puppy play    
ROL Simulated rape (by several people)    
ROL Simulated rape (by 1 person)    
       
       
ROL Sell your underwear    
ROL Being camgirl for a day and striptease in front of her webcam    
MED Catheter    
MED Anal enema    
MED Vaginal enema    
MED Speculum vaginal    
BM Branding    
BM Saline injections (temporarily increase the volume of breasts or testicles)    
BM Piercing (permanent)    
BM Temporary piercing (play piercing)    
BM Scarifications    
DIV Drink blood    
DIV Hypnosis    
DIV Fight    
DIV Rites of initiation    
DIV ritual    

 

Notes

  • This list of practices, also called Checklist does not replace in any case a lively discussion about your tastes and desires. This list should not be used as consent. It's just a simple medium to fuel your conversation.
  • Some of the BDSM practices noted in the list can be dangerous if they are practiced without perfect control. Before attempting a new experiment, make sure you understand the risks and precautions you should take. Do not try to reproduce videos found on the Internet, sometimes filmed with special effects.
  • MANDATORY define a code (mode, sound, ...) to stop your games. This code must be "said" throughout the game, regardless of the practices. For example, if you decide to put a gag in the mouth of the dominated, do not agree a word as a code, he can not say!
  • If the BDSM security code is pronounced, stop right now!

Légende de la checklist BDSM

  • SEX : Sexual practices
  • TOY : Sextoys
  • JEU : Play
  • SOF : Soft
  • LIB : Libertinage
  • BON : Bondage
  • DS : Domination / Submission
  • SM : Sadomasochism
  • SEN : Sensation play
  • VET : Dress code
  • EXH : Exhibitionism
  • FET : Fetishism
  • MED : Medical fetishism
  • ROL : Role-playing games
  • BM : Body modifications
  • PHY : Physical appearance
  • DIV : Miscellaneous

Scale

Use the scale to fill in each box on the BDSM checklist.

  • / Technically impossible (e. g. action requiring an organ that you do not have).
  • ♥ : Essential! You love this practice and you can't do without it.
  • 5 : You love it.
  • 4 : You like it.
  • 3 : A rather nice activity.
  • 2 : Well, you prefer not to do it.
  • 1 : You don't like it too much but if it makes your game partner happy, you accept.
  • 0 : You hate it. You will if it's really your partner's fantasy.
  • X : You do not want to try this practice under any circumstances.

Now it is up to you to complete this BDSM checklist and then give it to your partner. First of all, don't forget to define the roles: dominant and submissive!

Lebisou wishes you a pleasant BDSM experience!


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