Complete BDSM checklist
Article published on 21 january 2019
Do you want to join the BDSM adventure? Do you want to become a slave, a master? Does your partner agree to play with you?
Lebisou supports you in writing a BDSM contract by providing you with a checklist of all sexual practices performed in BDSM environments. This checklist must be completed in addition to your contract. The watchwords: don't force yourself and go little by little! You can come back to the contract later and add authorizations for new practices.
Lebisou wishes you to have a great time with BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism)!
LISTE BDSM
| Category | Description | Do you accept this action? | Do you want to subject your partner to this action? |
| SEX | Anulingus | ||
| SEX | Swallowing sperm | ||
| SEX | Cunnilingus | ||
| SEX | Anal dilation | ||
| SEX | Vaginal dilation | ||
| SEX | Double penetration | ||
| SEX | Blowjob | ||
| SEX | Fisting anal | ||
| SEX | Vaginal fisting | ||
| SEX | Masturber | ||
| SEX | Vaginal penetration | ||
| SEX | Masturbating in front of your partner | ||
| SEX | Anal sex (in general) | ||
| SEX | Sex on the phone with the partner | ||
| SEX | Phone sex with another person | ||
| SEX | Oral sex (in general) | ||
| SEX | Vaginal sex (in general) | ||
| SEX | Sodomy | ||
| SEX | Triple penetration | ||
| SEX | Sexual intercourse with a person of the same sex (homosexuality) | ||
| SEX | Sexual intercourse with a person of the opposite sex (heterosexuality) | ||
| SOF | Massage sensuel | ||
| SOF | Regarder une vidéo porno sur Internet | ||
| SOF | Acheter un magazine érotique dans une maison de la presse | ||
| JEU | Jeux de société sexy avec d'autres personnes (strip poker, ...) | ||
| JEU | Jeux de société sexy en privé | ||
| JEU | Free game scenarios on Lebisou | ||
| JEU | Free dating games on Lebisou | ||
| TOY | Geisha balls (carried at home) | ||
| TOY | Geisha balls (worn in public, under clothing) | ||
| TOY | Anal rosary | ||
| TOY | Cockring | ||
| TOY | Blowjob on dildo | ||
| TOY | Blowjob on a belt bucket | ||
| TOY | Gates of Hell | ||
| TOY | Dildo (vaginal insertion) | ||
| TOY | Anal Dildo | ||
| TOY | Vibrating egg | ||
| TOY | Penetration with a belt dildo | ||
| TOY | Anal plug (worn at home) | ||
| TOY | Anal plug (worn in public, under clothing) | ||
| TOY | Vibrator | ||
| TOY | Fucking machine | ||
| TOY | Wooden sextoy | ||
| TOY | Chinese fingers | ||
| TOY | Clitoral simulator | ||
| LIB | Candaulism | ||
| LIB | Cuckolding | ||
| LIB | Echangisme | ||
| LIB | Mixing (group sexuality close to swinging) | ||
| LIB | Female pluralism | ||
| LIB | Male pluralism | ||
| LIB | Threesome | ||
| LIB | Voyeurism (watch others) | ||
| BON | Armbinder | ||
| BON | Attached standing behind and lifted | ||
| BON | Attached Standing Arms Raised | ||
| BON | Attached on a trestle | ||
| BON | Ball gag | ||
| BON | Gag in adhesive tape | ||
| BON | Cloth gag | ||
| BON | Gag now open mouth for penetration (ring or "spider") | ||
| BON | Gag bit | ||
| BON | Headband on the eyes | ||
| BON | Lace mask on the eyes | ||
| BON | Headband on the eyes | ||
| BON | Spreader bars | ||
| BON | Bondage (public, under clothes) | ||
| BON | Bondage with ropes | ||
| BON | Bondage with chains | ||
| BON | Bondage with thongs | ||
| BON | Bondage with plastic film | ||
| BON | Bondage with tape or "bondage tape" (black or pink BDSM special tape) | ||
| BON | Heavy bondage | ||
| BON | Bondage soft | ||
| BON | Bondage over a long period | ||
| BON | Balaclava covering the whole head | ||
| BON | Straitjacket | ||
| BON | St. Andrew's Cross | ||
| BON | Sleeping tied | ||
| BON | Locking up in a closet or cell | ||
| BON | Lock in a cage | ||
| BON | Equipment of complex constraints in leather or faux leather | ||
| BON | Head harness | ||
| BON | Harness in leather or faux leather | ||
| BON | Rope harness | ||
| BON | Hands tied | ||
| BON | Leather handcuffs | ||
| BON | Metal handcuffs | ||
| BON | Praised | ||
| BON | Mummification (with plastic film, bondage tape, ...) | ||
| BON | Feet attached | ||
| BON | Shibari | ||
| BON | Sling | ||
| BON | Suspension upside down | ||
| BON | Suspension horizontally | ||
| BON | Suspension in a standing position | ||
| DS | Chastity accessories (chastity cage for men, chastity belt for women) | ||
| DS | Forced chastity | ||
| DS | Necklace + leash (worn at home) | ||
| DS | Necklace + leash (worn in the evening, in public) | ||
| DS | Competition (with other people submitted) | ||
| DS | Orgasm control | ||
| DS | Control of the use of the bathroom | ||
| DS | Control of the use of toilets | ||
| DS | Denial of orgasm | ||
| DS | Homework (exercises to do alone) | ||
| DS | To be loaned to another dominant person | ||
| DS | To be given to another dominant person | ||
| DS | Forced physical exercise | ||
| DS | Offer new partners to the dominant person | ||
| DS | Frustration | ||
| DS | Harem | ||
| DS | Heterosexuality imposed | ||
| DS | Imposed homosexuality | ||
| DS | Humiliation (in a restricted circle) | ||
| DS | Humiliation (public evening) | ||
| DS | Verbal humiliation | ||
| DS | Licking (non-sexual: object, ground, ...) | ||
| DS | Masturbation imposed | ||
| DS | Picketing (standing, in a corner) | ||
| DS | Eat food presented in the hand of the dominant person | ||
| DS | Eat food in a bowl | ||
| DS | Imposed food | ||
| DS | Obey orders | ||
| DS | Orgasm ruined | ||
| DS | Orgasm on order | ||
| DS | Wearing symbolic jewels | ||
| DS | Rules of behavior to follow | ||
| DS | Speech restriction | ||
| DS | Sleep restriction | ||
| DS | Restriction of visual contacts | ||
| DS | Sexual restriction (short term) | ||
| DS | Sexual restriction (medium to long term) | ||
| DS | Kneel | ||
| DS | Sermon / lesson in case of misconduct | ||
| DS | Serve the dominant person | ||
| DS | Serve other people in addition to the dominant person | ||
| DS | Ashtray serving | ||
| DS | To serve as a driver | ||
| DS | Serve as decoration (statue, flower pot, ...) or furniture | ||
| DS | Serve as a servant and a waiter | ||
| DS | To serve as a toilet | ||
| DS | To serve sexually | ||
| DS | Dance on demand | ||
| DS | Housework | ||
| SM | Wooden paddle (sort of hard wooden whip - punishment instrument) | ||
| SM | Torture of the genitals | ||
| SM | Badine (long whip) | ||
| SM | Thorny branches | ||
| SM | Burns (wax of candles) | ||
| SM | Burns (iron) | ||
| SM | Cane (rigid) | ||
| SM | Cane (flexible) | ||
| SM | slapping | ||
| SM | Flexible correction | ||
| SM | Hard correction | ||
| SM | Blows on the back | ||
| SM | Blows on the back... | ||
| SM | Strokes on the chest / chest | ||
| SM | Blows on the belly | ||
| SM | Blows on buttocks | ||
| SM | Strokes on the legs | ||
| SM | Strokes on the feet | ||
| SM | cuts | ||
| SM | Whip | ||
| SM | Agreatignance | ||
| SM | Stretching or twisting of the genitals with the fingers | ||
| SM | Stretching or twisting nipples or breasts with fingers | ||
| SM | Spanking | ||
| SM | Spanking with a strap or belt | ||
| SM | Whip "Single tail" | ||
| SM | Whip with thong | ||
| SM | Riding Training Whip | ||
| SM | swift | ||
| SM | bites | ||
| SM | Clothespins on the body | ||
| SM | Clamps with breasts | ||
| SM | Clamps on sex | ||
| SM | Breast weight | ||
| SM | Torture in the water | ||
| SEN | Tickling | ||
| SEN | Hot wax | ||
| SEN | Hot wax on the genitals | ||
| SEN | Breath control | ||
| SEN | Electro-simulation | ||
| SEN | Restrictor | ||
| SEN | Fireplay | ||
| SEN | Friction | ||
| SEN | Ice | ||
| SEN | Needle games | ||
| SEN | Knifeplay | ||
| SEN | Sensory deprivation | ||
| SEN | Suction | ||
| SEN | Teasing | ||
| SEN | Hair drawing | ||
| VET | Corsets | ||
| VET | Nudity imposed in the presence of other people | ||
| VET | Nudity imposed in private | ||
| VET | Maid outfit | ||
| VET | Dress code | ||
| VET | Travesty | ||
| VET | Forced intercity | ||
| VET | uniforms | ||
| VET | Leather clothing | ||
| VET | Latex clothing | ||
| VET | Lycra clothing | ||
| VET | Vinyl clothing | ||
| VET | Dare clothing (in private) | ||
| VET | Dare clothing (in public) | ||
| PHY | Hair shaving | ||
| PHY | Shaving body hair | ||
| PHY | Shaving of genital areas | ||
| EXH | Forced exhibitionism | ||
| EXH | Exhibitionism (in a small circle) | ||
| EXH | Exhibitionism in front of webcam | ||
| EXH | Voluntary exhibitionism | ||
| EXH | Public exhibition | ||
| EXH | Photos published in the photo gallery Lebisou | ||
| EXH | Photos for private use | ||
| EXH | Photos exchanged by chat with other Lebisou members | ||
| EXH | Outdoor BDSM scenes | ||
| EXH | Outdoor sex | ||
| EXH | Videos posted in Lebisou photo / video Lebisou | ||
| EXH | Videos for private use | ||
| EXH | Videos exchanged by chat with other Lebisou members | ||
| FET | Boot fetishist | ||
| FET | Foot fetishist | ||
| FET | Breasts fetishist | ||
| FET | Fetishist high heels | ||
| FET | Butt fetishist | ||
| FET | Fetish sex | ||
| FET | Drink urine | ||
| FET | Brown shower (droppings) | ||
| FET | Golden shower | ||
| FET | Food placed on the body of another person | ||
| FET | Trampling | ||
| ROL | Age play / Regression games (disguising yourself as a baby, child, teenager) | ||
| ROL | interrogations | ||
| ROL | Role play: Education | ||
| ROL | Role play: medical (nurse, doctor, medical visit, ...) | ||
| ROL | Role play: prison | ||
| ROL | Role play: Prostitution | ||
| ROL | Role play: religious | ||
| ROL | Simulated kidnapping | ||
| ROL | Pet play | ||
| ROL | Pig play | ||
| ROL | Pony play | ||
| ROL | Puppy play | ||
| ROL | Simulated rape (by several people) | ||
| ROL | Simulated rape (by 1 person) | ||
| ROL | Sell your underwear | ||
| ROL | Being camgirl for a day and striptease in front of her webcam | ||
| MED | Catheter | ||
| MED | Anal enema | ||
| MED | Vaginal enema | ||
| MED | Speculum vaginal | ||
| BM | Branding | ||
| BM | Saline injections (temporarily increase the volume of breasts or testicles) | ||
| BM | Piercing (permanent) | ||
| BM | Temporary piercing (play piercing) | ||
| BM | Scarifications | ||
| DIV | Drink blood | ||
| DIV | Hypnosis | ||
| DIV | Fight | ||
| DIV | Rites of initiation | ||
| DIV | ritual |
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Notes
- This list of practices, also called Checklist does not replace in any case a lively discussion about your tastes and desires. This list should not be used as consent. It's just a simple medium to fuel your conversation.
- Some of the BDSM practices noted in the list can be dangerous if they are practiced without perfect control. Before attempting a new experiment, make sure you understand the risks and precautions you should take. Do not try to reproduce videos found on the Internet, sometimes filmed with special effects.
- MANDATORY define a code (mode, sound, ...) to stop your games. This code must be "said" throughout the game, regardless of the practices. For example, if you decide to put a gag in the mouth of the dominated, do not agree a word as a code, he can not say!
- If the BDSM security code is pronounced, stop right now!
Légende de la checklist BDSM
- SEX : Sexual practices
- TOY : Sextoys
- JEU : Play
- SOF : Soft
- LIB : Libertinage
- BON : Bondage
- DS : Domination / Submission
- SM : Sadomasochism
- SEN : Sensation play
- VET : Dress code
- EXH : Exhibitionism
- FET : Fetishism
- MED : Medical fetishism
- ROL : Role-playing games
- BM : Body modifications
- PHY : Physical appearance
- DIV : Miscellaneous
Scale
Use the scale to fill in each box on the BDSM checklist.
- / Technically impossible (e. g. action requiring an organ that you do not have).
- ♥ : Essential! You love this practice and you can't do without it.
- 5 : You love it.
- 4 : You like it.
- 3 : A rather nice activity.
- 2 : Well, you prefer not to do it.
- 1 : You don't like it too much but if it makes your game partner happy, you accept.
- 0 : You hate it. You will if it's really your partner's fantasy.
- X : You do not want to try this practice under any circumstances.
Now it is up to you to complete this BDSM checklist and then give it to your partner. First of all, don't forget to define the roles: dominant and submissive!
Lebisou wishes you a pleasant BDSM experience!
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