How to access orgasm with my clitoris?
Article published on 16 may 2017
Give pleasure with the clitoris
Gentlemen, do you know how to take care of Madame's clitoris? The fellatio is extremely practiced in women. Men sometimes have more trouble with cunnilingus and use only one technique. This blog article will teach you new techniques to give pleasure to your spouse. You will bring variety and exoticism to your sexual experience .
The only function of the clitoris is to give pleasure to the woman. Know that it is much bigger than you think! Indeed, the clitoris and the point G , it is the same organ! Point G is located in the anterior wall of the vagina. To find it, slide a finger into the vagina and press firmly on the anterior wall ( to the clitoris and not to the buttocks ). You will discover an area that thrills Madame!
Do not lose hope, it is not always easy to find a G-spot in a woman.
Did you find the point G? A new mission is waiting for you: find the point A ! After point G, continue to the cervix ( vagina bottom ). Then bring your fingers back halfway between the 2 points. Here is zone A. If you give it a blow, the woman will usually have strong contractions ( as if she was trying to expel you ). In this case, you must still + press it! Indeed, in this zone A, the more you go, + it's intense !
cunnilingus Techniques
Thanks to Dino for this naughty photo
Under the language
Lift the small hood of the clitoris with your fingers. Be careful, go easy, the vast majority of women are sensitive to this place. Use the inner part of your lips to gently stroke the golden button. It's a lot sweeter than language !
Sucking
Gently suck the clit between your lips. Increase suction as excitement rises. You can also make variations of suctions to increase desire. As for the technique "Under the tongue", go slowly.
Next, place your thumb and forefinger on each side of the clitoris. Rub it back and forth. Follow the movement of Madame's body to be in rhythm. If it is sensitive, we advise you to "put the cap back in place" before this operation.
French Kiss
Make it look like you are kissing your mouthpiece , but at the clitoral level! Think French kiss = Hollywood kiss.
Small lips
The labia minora are directly attached to the clitoris. If you take care of it, you're emphasizing the effect on the golden button. Nibble, suck, lick, stroke, ... you have full powers on little lips ! Less sensitive than the clitoris, you can try many more techniques.
Then spin your lips between your fingers, as if you were rolling a rope.
penetration
Bend your tongue and push it into the opening of the vagina. Go back and forth in rhythm. Also lick all around the entrance.For even more pleasure, stimulate the clitoris with one finger + insert another finger in the vagina towards the G-spot .
Orgasm insured for Madam.
Contrary to what men believe, women do not necessarily have more fun when they are fully "filled". Do not force to bring more fingers or a larger dildo into the vagina. Wait until Madam is ready and willing. Do not hesitate to ask her how many fingers she prefers.
For more + intensity, vary the speed of penetration: slow ... average ... fast ... Sometimes take out your fingers completely to insert them into the vagina again. Cross and uncross your fingers in the vagina as well. You can also alternate your fingers in the manner of a piston. A knack can also be appreciated.
Tenderness
Lift the clitoral hood with a light pressure. Then use only the tip of your tongue to tickle it. At irregular intervals, lightly the button.
At the same time, insert a finger into the vagina to double your pleasure.
Alphabet
Reproduce the alphabet with your tongue on your spouse's vulva. Will you manage to reproduce all the letters of the aphabet before Madam begs you to penetrate ?
Then play some music !!! Hit your fingers on the pubis and clitoris, as if you were tapping on a drum. Madame will feel her private parts vibrate .... guaranteed sensation!
Cold
Put an ice cube in your mouth before starting cunnilingus. Proven intense sensation! Your wife will love it!
Like a man
Masturbating the clitoris as if it were a tiny penis. If Madame's clitoris is not big enough, you can simply squeeze it and rub it. Then, press it to vary the sensations
Female masturbation
And if, to know your wife in the least details, you offered to masturbate in front of you? Men find it extremely exciting to see a woman enjoying themselves in front of them. It's also a great way to learn more about your partner. Without realizing it, the woman will show her companion her different erogenous zones and the way she takes pleasure.
Steps to follow:
- Prepare a little cocoon for Madame. She must feel comfortable and not too cold.
- The lighting must be dimmed ( candles, bedside lamp, ... ). We are not in an operating room!
- Madam must lie down and masturbate in front of you. Sit next to her to observe him. You can even play a role-playing game and look at it hidden, like a pervert in the street!
- After a few minutes, offer him your help ( main ). Madame must keep control over your hand. It is she alone who decides on the intensity and the way of the simulation.
- Invert the roles! Now you masturbate in front of her!
Ladies, there are no ideas for masturbation?
- Stroke the clitoris cap
- Press and hold down
- Masturbate your clitoris as if it were a small penis (1 finger on each side)
- Turn your finger around the golden button.
- Rub the lips (large and small) together and then caress them.
- Gently tap your clitoris and your lips
- Insert 1 and several fingers into your vagina. To have fun, the penetration does not have to be deep. The entry of the vagina is also an erogenous zone.
- Press the heel of your hand on your pubic bone
In conclusion, know that for successful cunnilingus , you will have to vary the different techniques explained above. Do not hesitate to create variants yourself to extend the pleasure of Madame.